The Guys...

You know sometimes i wish i was a guy. And im not saying that to get on my soapbox about the usual female argument of painful period cramps or child birth. Im talking about the different mentalities of men and women. This blog was inspired because I was priviledged enough to spend the evening with my brothers watching um...FIBA something basketball game. USA v.s. All the other teams of the world that will never beat us. And it was so much fun! Even though i didn't know all the names of all the players. and game percentages were uncharted territory for me it was still interesting. And i just sat there and observed the dynamic of the male relationship. Commonalities i noticed are loud talking, boisterous laughter, sporatic handshakes and high fives ( Not the fruity high fives) and just good old talking trash and debates. Admitting a fart is of minimal importance when any sport is on the TV. Caring about proper etiquette is thrown out the window.But still you would think that these guys had a degree in basketball-ogy, They know so much, about every person who sets foot on the court. And i love how they have the ability to play each other, and embarass one another without feelings getting hurt. And they never have to be concerned about further talking about them once they leave the room. As quickly as its said, its forgotten. Most females don't have that type of relationship. Of course I've had friends that i joke with and poke fun at, But there are some things i would never say because i know they would get offended. And Im not saying im the acception to the rule. I know i can be very sensitive....AND I HATE IT! I'm not trying to generalize about genders, but from what i've noticed is that in most cases its just so much easier for guys to eliminate drama and brush it off. They would not let any trivial matters get in the way of their fun. It's just not worth it. So when they are on their way to their designated homes,They know at the end of the game no matter if their teams won or lost, or how many times they call each other gay, they still got Love.